It’s okay to not be “okay”, There’s nothing wrong with enjoying your perfect mess of a life as it is.
Nobody has all the answers and nobody can judge you.
Life is not about having all the answers or acting like you have the perfect life.
Life, is a journey and nobody has a better life than you. Honestly, the grass may appear greener on the other side, but it’s not.
Temptation is a major part of life, but so is commitment, growth and understanding.
Don’t spend your time looking at other people’s lives and thinking that they have it all together.
Nobody does, this is the generation of people who are recovering from broken childhoods, the generation of the over-worked and under-loved.
We are all united in our story of struggle, world peace should no longer be our goal because we are set on adjusting to war.
The war in our minds, hearts and lives. Instead, let’s focus on world “acceptance” Accepting that nobody has the answers and that everyone is learning how to do this thing we call, life. @sylvestermcnutt
1. Package Acceptance – If you send a package from FedEx you have the option to send it requiring a signature or you can just leave it at the door and wait for the receiver to get the package. You have to stop allowing your love to be a “leave it at the door” type of love. If nobody is there to receive it then the, “return to sender” option should get applied. Some of the package’s you’re sending might have the right address but it’s the wrong name on the package. Even worse you might be sending the right package to the wrong person at the wrong time.
2. The Person Who Broke You DOES NOT have the power to fix you today. This is my favorite quote from my book, but why? I swore up and down that I could save my ex after I broke her heart. I wanted to love her the “right” way so bad because I did care about her and because I wanted to fix my mistake’s. So I activated the “Come Back Trail”. Yes, I hit her with the “I Love you, come back” or the “I miss you text” or the “ It will be different this time.” Yes, she fell for it every time but why? It’s because SHE WANTED TO BELIEVE that I could change. It’s because she was too scared to risk a new heart with someone else. It’s because starting over can be terrifying especially after you’ve invested so much time. It’s because she loved me and did not want to give up.
3. WHY SHE SHOULD HAVE LEFT SOONER – She should have left because I was broken and a broken person will only break you. There’s not a single person that can help or maintain another person if they’re broken. I was supposed to leave so I could figure out who I was. It was not until she walked away that we both GREW as people. It was not until we broke up that we learned how to love another person why? Because we both looked inside to figure out better ways to treat ourselves. I am not telling you to break up with this person, some people do change but In most situations behavior changes after an absorbent amount of growth or separation. It typically does not happen just because a person say’s so, yet so many women have an emotional attachment to words so they set themselves up for failure because they fall for empty promise that he is making off of emotion. He truly does not want to lose the girl BUT HE does not have the skills to fix her after he broke her. Even though his desire is to “treat her better” It often fails on deaf ears because she will bring up the mistake he made over and over and over and over and over and over until he eventually get’s fed up and leaves. (The Cycle that both people should avoid.)
4. WE’VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR TWO YEARS AND THERE’S NO TITLE? WHY WONT THEY CLAIM ME – Easy answer, they don’t want to nor do they need to in order to receive your benefits. It’s apparent that there’s not a single commitment necessary. Apparently all they have to do is be available because your “Package Acceptance” disclaimer states nothing. Your disclaimer say’s, “I deliver, you can pick me up and I’m willing to be used without a signer.” Without a signer who is responsible for your love and emotions? First, you are. Second, If you’re sharing your body and time you better step up requirements, that is if you want something real.
Sylvester Mcnutt III