Types Of Situationships

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Type of Situationships by Horacio

#1 The Waiting-ship:

If you started of all causal, thinking that you could go with the flow, have sex, and chill, but NOT ever want more.... I'm sorry, it's easier said the dome. Months later, you've dropped all of the other people you talked to, and now want a relationship with Mr. "I Don't Want Anything Serious".....

You're most likely aren’t going to be upgraded from "friends with benefits" to girlfriend. Why? Well, because you made it clear that he can have relationship benefits without ever having to upgrade to a relationship.

First its, "I want to get to know you, but I don't want anything serious." And since you don't know him very well, you don't want anything serious either because no one wants to jump into anything serious when you first meet them. It takes time. However, months later, he still doesn't want anything serious, but by now, YOU want serious.

You do everything with him as if you're his girlfriend and he's telling you to wait until he's ready. Like "Bae, let’s take it slow. Bae, I don't want everyone in our business. Bae, we know what we are. Everyone doesn't have to know what we are. Bae, I don't know what I want right now. Bae, let's just chill and not get caught up in emotions. Bae, you know I’m focused on this money. Bae, give me a month. Bae, I can see us together in the future. Baby, I know that I don't want anyone else, just wait. Let it happen naturally." and you go along with it for months or years because he makes it sound cute and you're being naive.

You will wait… wait, wait, wait some more… and then read some basic ass quote that says "You know it's official, when its unofficial and she still loyal." And that actually helps you sleep, but eventually you have to wake up, and when you do you’ll be back to waiting for a man that doesn’t even want you. And in most cases, its not that he does not want a relationship, if they just do not want a relationship with you. But as long as he tell you to wait and gives you hope that one day you will have that title and commitment, you're going to sit there and wait....... Titles are everything, but the commitment is. Defining the relationship is important. Defining expectations and limitations in relationships is important. You can wait forever if you want but a man that wants you will let that be known. @HoracioJones

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